For me, a first date no-no is:

A perfect first date would consist of him picking me up and giving me flowers at the door. We'd go to a nice restaurant where we could have good food and get to know each other. Although I don't need to hear about ex-wives and girlfriends that early! We'd next go for a drink or coffee and learn more about us. The date would end at my door with a nice good night kiss. If all went well there would hopefully be more good dates and kisses to come. A girl can dream right.