I have a weakness for guys/girls who:

have arms that make them look like they'd be good at playing baseball. There's also a certain kind of smile some guys have that just makes me go completely week at the knees and smile like a total goof.

For me, a first date no-no is:

If you're full of yourself or if you can't lighten up and just have fun. People who take themselves too seriously are sort of annoying. Also, let me know if you actually like me! lol If I don't like you then I won't act like I like you, if I do then I will. I sort of expect the same lol

What I would bring to show and tell:

I would honestly bring my cats. My tom cat's name is Jeffrey Dahmer, but we call him Jeffy usually. When he was younger, he was kind of a pussy (haha I had to make a pun) so we gave him a name that would strike fear into the hearts of the other cats. My other cats are a white calico named Pickles and a kitten named Stachio (Stache for short) who is named after his Hitler looking mustache. He also has a beard though, which is why his name isn't Adolf. (We've had a black kitten named Adolf before) Or I'd bring my grandmother's jewelry. It all depends on the show and tell setting.

A story you should remind me to tell you on our first date:

How I played a burglar in a play and ended up tripping across the entire stage to land flat on my face in front of the whole town, as well as my grandparents.

I secretly want to be:

the world's best librarian by day and a secret agent/rock star by night.

I want to be with someone who wants to be:

my own personal superhero :) Green Lantern perhaps? Thor? Captain America? Classic Superman/Batman/Spiderman? You decide ;) (Most girls want this but use other words and phrases to describe it. We want you to be there for us physically, emotionally, and we want to feel safe when you wrap your arms around us)

An infatuation of mine:

My first concert was Saving Jane at my college (Signed CD!) but my dream concert would probably be someone who had awesome 90s songs and is still coming out with good ones. Probably Train. I'm mildly infatuated with the idea of being able to do a cartwheel. I can't, but I keep trying to! I'm also infatuated with Doctor Who and True Blood. Go figure lol

If I won the lottery and quit my job, I would:

Pay off school loans/debt -->buy a convertible mustang or camero--> fix up my hometown--> Move to Hawaii--> travel the world --> fly my friends and family out to see me occasionally

One thing my mother would want you to know about me:

She would warn you about how much I talk probably haha

I want to come home to:

Well-behaved kids and a loving husband/father where we can all sit down and have a nice meal together, talk about our days, and then either do a family activity or sit down to watch our favorite tv shows together. Bike rides and board game nights are a must! This is in the future of course, my fantasy so-to-speak.