Remember that time you went on that fantastic date? The one that seemed to be going perfectly? Remember how you felt the next day when your potential paramour said, “Yeah, I had nice time, but I’m not interested.” Remember that? And you thought, “What happened? Did I do something wrong?” The thing is, you very well could have. Or, you know, maybe there just wasn’t any chemistry. You’ll probably never know. But, don’t worry. We’ll handle this.

To solve this age old dilemma, we’ve analyzed how HowAboutWe members answer the question, “For me, a first date no-no is…” to pinpoint the most common dating deal-breakers. So, should a date ever pull the disappearing act again, you won’t have to wonder: “Was it me?”  Because if you didn’t commit any of these first date crimes, then it wasn’t  you. It just wasn’t the right fit.

[infographic designed by Larry Buchanan]