This weekend would be a great time to get started on your Summer Hookup Bucket List. There are 25 places. Get going!

Eyeing a cute server at a restaurant? These clever pickup lines for waiters and waitresses will actually work. They’d work on us, anyway.

If you’re on a first date don’t wear any of these 17 things! (We polled some guys, and these are the fashion choices they’d say would make them run for the hills.) Instead check out this inspiration for the perfect first (and second) date outfits. And don’t miss our list of the top 10 first date no-nos and the list of  7 phrases you need to nix from your dating vocabulary.

If you’re out at a bar, avoid these 10 annoying bar behaviors. But if you’re over the bar scene all together, fear not — here are 50 other (non-bar) places to meet someone. Out for dinner? Maybe don’t order one of these incredibly awkward date appetizers (nachos and oysters ARE on the list.)

Oh hell yes. Let’s say yes to the quickie. (Here are 6 tips!)

To dump the jerk, or not? That is the question. Here’s how to know.

And here’s what to say if you run into your ex.

Finally, remember. If you don’t hear from your date, it’s A-OK. At least your date didn’t make you fill out a survey about his performance or is this passive-aggressive liar who is a bullsh*t texter.