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8 Do’s and Don’ts For Hitting On Your Waiter Or Waitress

“To my charming and delightful waitress: Pardon me for being so forward, but it simply must be said: You’re a stunner. And I’d love to take you out. “

This Is Why You’re Attracted To That Jerk, Says Science

It’s not you!

Bragging Feels Just as Good as Sex, Says Science

This explains why getting your date to talk about herself is an instant win for you.

So I Went to a Pheromone Party (and Almost Didn’t Get My T-Shirt Back)

Did I think that smelling a strange man’s dirty laundry would unleash heretofore hidden feelings of desire? No. But I did think fondly of an ex’s scent and the way I would bury my nostrils in his shirts whenever he left them around — almost as if the aroma itself had super powers.

10 Instant Turn-Ons (That Work for Both Sexes)

Whoever said “the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach” only got it half-right: food totally does it for women, too.

18 Things Every Man Should Know Before Getting a Bikini Wax

If one of the red-flags holding you back from a manscaping trial is your fear of the NARB (No Apparent Reason Boner), you should know you’re not alone.

The Great Manscape: In Which We Make 3 Men Get Bikini Waxes and Tell All

The NYT said everyone else was doing it, so we sent 3 men out to get bikini waxes. One of them made a video set to music. One of them got dissed by his boyfriend. And one of them got laid immediately. Here are their stories.

Can You Tell If Someone Likes You? [VIDEO]

Is it totally obvious or are you totally oblivious? How can you tell?

What Women Look For in a Man [VIDEO]

This week, we found out what qualities women look for in a guy. Some of it’s pretty basic, some of it’s encouraging, some of it’s… kind of bizarre.

20 Things Guys Have Said That Totally Turned Us On

Them is bedding words.

What Really Attracts Men? It’s Complicated. [VIDEO]

We sent Date Reporter Kristin Campbell to the streets to find out what real men in the real world are actually looking for in a woman. What we found may (pleasantly) surprise you.