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Steph Auteri

An Etiquette Guide to Remote-Control Sex Toys

Remote control vibes can be great fun. They can be the perfect way to spice up a sex life that’s become routine. But when used in public, they can also be brutal on the people around you.

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It’s Time to End the ‘Men Always Want Sex’ Myth

Women tend to experience desire after they’ve already started fooling around, while men experience “spontaneous desire.” This difference can create the appearance that male desire is stronger, when that’s not necessarily the case.

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How Much Sex Do We Want? Whatever’s More than Our Neighbors

Here are a few reasons why the sex you’re having — no matter the quantity or kinkiness quotient — should already be making you happy.

Sex Etiquette: 10 Things Not to Do in the Bedroom

Don’t worry too much about what you should be doing the next time your partner makes The Move. Instead, be mindful of what NOT to do.

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Are We Headed Toward a Bikini Waxing Backlash?

When it comes to personal grooming down there, isn’t being healthy sexier than being possibly inflamed and infected?

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What to Do If Your Boyfriend Wants Sex Less Than You Do

What can you do if you and your partner have a mismatched sex drive? Here are five quick(ie) tips.

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Sex Against the Odds: 7 Ways to Recover from a Mood-Killing Moment

Here’s how to overcome the obstacles and find your way back to the moment.

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When Sex-Therapist Advice Goes Very Wrong

Take the advice that resonates with you. And screw the rest.

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10 Activities That Will Get You and Your Partner in Bed

We can’t necessarily guarantee that the following dates will lead to sex, but they are more likely to put you in the mood.

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My Husband Married a Sex Writer

I’m incredibly lucky to have a husband who’s open to trying new things with me, and who lets me reveal the particulars of our sex life to The Entire Freakin’ Internet.